Sunday, November 27, 2022

From Generation to Generation…there’s room for every story

Isaiah 2:1-5 and Matthew 1:1-17

This was the weekend that I put away decorations that I had up for the month of November—turkeys made of handprints, pumpkins crocheted by previous generations, a wooden toy my grandfather made with pecking chickens… and it’s the weekend when I began to up the decorations of Advent and Christmas. Peace doves and lanterns, the stable my Dad made by hand when his hands were skilled and able, tree-filled winter scenes and new colored lights and stockings made long ago. Taking down and putting up decorations this week and practicing Advent in the weeks to come is something that is not just an act of the present time. The activity connects me to generations of my ancestors, it’s something I’m passing to my children, and it’s where the writers of this Sanctified Art liturgy we’re sharing this season invite us to begin—by contemplating ancestors. 

This is why we read the genealogy of Jesus. It was not just a boring list of names, it was a remembering list—a list of so many stories woven together. Stories of trauma, triumph, hardships and beauty. Stories of outsiders who become central, stories of adoption being even more powerful than bloodlines, stories of complex relationships that all lead to Christ’s story. Some evil kings were left out of Matthew’s list and many of the matriarchs’ names were left out, but five of the matriarchs were named. 

 

In case you’re not familiar with these ancient ancestors of Jesus, I’ll briefly share a glimpse of the stories of Tamar, Rahab, Ruth and Bathsheba.

 

Tamar[1] suffers the death of her husbands and is blamed for their death by her father-in-law. She is in danger of losing all rights and resources but through being incredibly creative and assertive, she gives birth to twins with Judah who ends up saying about her, “ zadekah mimmeni-- often translated “she is more in the right than I” (Gen 38:26), a recognition not only of her innocence, but also of his unfairness to her.

 

In spite of being a foreign wife, she is incredibly loyal to Judah’s family, a quality that we see later in another part of this family tree—as Naomi and Ruth lose all the men in their family but Ruth, another foreigner, stays with Naomi and gives her descendants.

Tamar’s (and Ruth’s) traits of assertiveness in action, willingness to be unconventional, and deep loyalty to family are remembered from generation to generation. 

 

Circling back to Rahab, she is Canaanite as the Israelites are invading Canaan. Rahab receives and then hides spies from Israel from her own king. She bargains with the Israelites to save her family as they invade and prophetically says that they will win. She gives her loyalty to God’s people and makes them her new community.

 

Finally, the wife of Uriah, Bathsheba, is an Ammonite woman. Her husband fights loyally for King David but David has him killed in order to cover up his own selfish actions. Later, when Bathsheba is David’s wife, she has a key role in making their son, Solomon, king. 

 

These four foreign grandmothers are included as named ancestors along the way of the 42 generations—women who like Mary, the mother of Jesus, were vulnerable to unfair judgement but chose instead to be assertive, unconventional, persuasive, faithful. In the short-term, things looked bleak for them but in the long arch of the story, they are remembered for their perseverance, creativity and intelligence. They are honored. They are named.

 

Dr. Christine J. Hong writes, “Just as Christ’s genealogy reveals the relationships across time and space in his life, many of our names also tie us to the generations who come before us and those who will come after us. Matthew lists the names of Jesus’ forebears as a marker of hope finally realized. Even today, names are the seeded hope of one generation planted in another. They are the thread that connects our histories, stories and futures. We are the hopes of those who’ve come before, and we live in hope for those who will come after us.”

 

Rev. Lisle Gwynn Garrity, from the Sanctified Art creative team, writes that as they were developing this theme, she learned about The Seventh Generation Principle, “a philosophy of the Iroquois that emphasizes how seven generations after us will be affected by our current actions and decisions. This invites us to cultivate a sacred imagination for what will come, considering what will sustain and benefit the generations who come after us… our world is continually shaped and re-shaped by our collective actions.”

 

This is very similar to what is said by God within the giving of the 10 best ways, sometimes also known as the 10 commandments. When God is asking for people to live in a new way, God describes these consequences of actions—“that children suffer for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but that God shows love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.” (Deuteronomy 5) 

It doesn’t even compare—how influential loving God and neighbor can be—how much exponentially more God wants to love and bless than to punish.

 

“Like a tapestry woven throughout time, this story weaves us in…”

We are invited in… to practice love and faith, courage and community, not only for ourselves but for seven… or a thousand generations. 

 

The work of God is always unfolding—in and through real people. The work of God goes on in real people as complex as the 42 generations named from Abraham to David to Jesus, as the real people gathered here. Our lives, histories, actions, and stories are interconnected and woven together and still unfolding in Christ. In God’s holy imagination, there’s room for every story.

So as we begin this Advent, may we remember that we belong—to an ongoing story, to generations that have come before and will come after, to a love that will never end.



[1] For the full, complicated stories of Tamar, Rahab, Ruth and Bathsheba read here: https://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/tamar-bible

Sunday, November 06, 2022

Love for All the Saints (& Sinners)


Ephesians 1: 11-23 and Luke 6

 “Our sense of disconnection is only an illusion. Nothing human can stop the flow of divine love; we cannot undo the eternal pattern even by our worst sin.”

- Richard Rohr

This week, we moved through Halloween, All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day. This week, I have been thinking especially of those who have lost beloved ones since this time last year.

And I am thinking of those who have carried grief for a long time.

I am grateful that the calendar provides these days to do what so many of us do throughout the year—to remember beloved ones who are no longer here but who somehow are with us still.

Also, Pastor Collette Broady Grund writes insightfully about the complicated grief that comes with loving people who have hurt us. Given that people are both sinners and saints—all of us—and the ways that our memories carry that whole complicated mix. Pastor Collette writes:

It seems appropriate then that All Saints follows so closely on the heels of Reformation Day in my Lutheran tradition, for one of the hallmarks of Lutheranism is paradox. “Simul iustis et peccatur” Luther said, which is just Latin for Saint and Sinner at the same time. 

Those two realities are equally true, even though they seem opposite, and our traditional All Saints’ celebrations don’t make much space for the sinner parts of our memories. Neither do our funeral rituals, or the way we generally sanctify those who have died and only talk publicly about their good qualities. “You should never speak ill of the dead,” right?! 

Wrong. Not that we speak ill of the saints who have surrounded and supported us, but we simply speak honestly, reminding ourselves that no one of us is wholly a saint. Just as no one of us is wholly a sinner. We are all both, and God through Jesus makes space for that, even if [others do] not.

In these sacred days, as we grieve those who hurt us or made life difficult in ways that we continue to carry, may we know how God the healer continues today to do God’s transformational work. God continues to bless those who are poor, who are hungry, who weep & mourn, who experience hate.

God continues to transform our difficult times into ones filled with laughter and feasting, and we can know that what lies ahead are days of rejoicing together and leaping for joy.

 

In these days, as we grieve and celebrate our beloved dead, may we know how they endure with us, holding our hearts and encompassing us with a fierce and stubborn love that persists across time and distance. May that love help light our way in the life that is continuing to unfold for us.                                                                Words from Jan Richardson



“We live in a world saturated with the love and intentionality of an ever-present God, and we are not alone.”                                             - Words adapted from Barbara Holmes, “God in Thin Places,” 

CONSPIRE 2021 (Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2021),


ENDURING BLESSING
—Jan Richardson from her book, The Cure for Sorrow: A Book of Blessings for Times of Grief

 

What I really want to tell you

is to just lay this blessing

on your forehead,

on your heart;

let it rest

in the palm of your hand,

because there is hardly anything

this blessing could say,

any word it could offer

to fill the hollow.

Let this blessing

work its way

into you

with its lines

that hold nearly

unspeakable lament.

Let this blessing

settle into you

with its hope

more ancient

than knowing.

Hear how this blessing

has not come alone—

how it echoes with

the voices of those

who accompany you,

who attend you in every moment,

who continually whisper

this blessing to you.

Hear how they

do not cease

to walk with you,

even when the dark

is deepest.

Hear how they

encompass you always—

breathing this blessing to you,

bearing this blessing to you
still.